Homeschooling. It’s a word that evokes images of idyllic days filled with learning, exploration, and close family bonds. But before you dive headfirst into this exciting (and sometimes challenging) journey, it’s crucial to ask yourself some honest questions for homeschool and to get the right support.

I love homeschooling. It is something that I entered into with excitement but also fear that I would mess it up. It hasn’t always been the easiest journey but it is worth it for our family. I have asked these following questions of myself several times. These questions were the basis of me putting together a How to Homeschool course. I wanted to support families who were asking the questions and wanted to be set up for success right from the start. 

QUESTIONS TO CONSIDER

Why Homeschool?

What are your motivations? It could be for academic challenges or a desire to provide a more individualized education. Your reasons are your reasons but you need to know what they are. 

This is actually the first question we should answer, and it’s the first thing I cover in my How to Homeschool course. Knowing why sets the tone and establishes the core of what you will be doing.

What are your child’s learning styles and needs?

Does homeschooling seem like the best fit for their personality and how they learn best? Not everyone knows how to discover their child’s learning style, but this is also something I cover in my course. Having 2 children with 2 different learning styles means I change up how I do things, but it is best for them.

Have you considered the practicals?

Homeschooling requires significant parental involvement. Are you ready to dedicate the time and energy it demands?

Have you considered the costs of curriculum, materials, and potential extracurricular activities? They don’t have to cost too much. In fact, there are ways to get curricula for free, but you do need to consider what different things will cost and how much you are willing and able to spend. 

There are other practicals like space to homeschool and socialization, but these, to me, are not big issues – just something to think about.

What curriculum do you want to use?

You can use online curricula, all-in-one, mix and match….and then there are different approaches to homeschooling, like classical, Charlotte Mason or even unschooling. How do you know what to use? My personal recommendation is to not just use what your friend does, but to actually take time to explore what would work best for you. Guess what, my course will help with that too.

How will you prioritize your own well-being? 

Burnout is a real concern for homeschooling parents but being aware of the pitfalls that lead to burnout can assist your well-being. Are you prepared for the emotional and logistical challenges? Homeschooling can be rewarding, but it also comes with its share of stress and challenges.

Do you have a support network?

Do you have other homeschool parents you can connect with? Even if it is just to have someone to text on the rough days, it is necessary. Will you consider a homeschool co-op? They can also be a great source of support.

IT IS PERSONAL

Homeschooling is a deeply personal decision. There is no one-size-fits-all answer. You have to do what works for you. But you don’t have to do it all on your own. Take the time to carefully consider your motivations, your child’s needs, and your own capabilities. 

This is just a starting point. The most important thing is to engage in open and honest self-reflection. Talk to other homeschooling families, visit homeschooling conventions, explore different curriculum options, and maybe take a course that will take you through the ins and outs – and maybe even answer questions that you didn’t know you have. Most importantly though, trust your instincts.

Homeschooling can be an incredibly rewarding experience, but it’s crucial to go into it with your eyes wide open.