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Encourage your struggling learner. It’s easy to do. Here’s how!

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Do you have a struggling learner and wish them to be more independent? I get that. Sometimes it can feel draining for you as the parent/teacher, but being more independent is really important for our children – regardless if they struggle or not. 

I have been asked by a few people how to encourage their struggling child – especially as they are getting older and they want them to have more independence.

Building and encouraging independence is the same for all children – but for our struggling ones it will take just a little bit more. More patience, positive reinforcement and clear expectations. We also need to make sure that all this suits their personalities and limitations. 

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Encouraging Independence in a Struggling Learner

I am a firm believer in having strategies for learning. When I was a learning coach, this is what I did with the kids I worked with. Whereas most children learn strategies on their own, children with learning issues or struggles need to be taught them.  Here are some strategies:

Break Down Tasks

Overwhelm is a big thing for struggling students. And this is often because everything just feels “too big” and then “I don’t know where to start”.

  • Divide larger tasks into smaller, manageable steps. This can make the task less overwhelming.
  • Use checklists, charts, or diagrams to help visualize the process.
  • Give them options within the task, allowing them to feel some control. Also allow their input into designing the strategy. 

Build Self-Confidence

We need to build up their self-confidence. Children who struggle will internalize and start believing the worst about themselves. We don’t want that for them.

  • Celebrate small victories and progress, no matter how small.
  • Emphasize that mistakes are learning opportunities.
  • Focus on their personal growth, not on comparing them to others.
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Teach Problem-Solving Skills

All children need problem-solving skills, but if our children are struggling, they will need some extra time on learning this. 

  • Help them develop the habit of asking questions when they encounter difficulties.
  • Show them how to approach challenges systematically. Model it for them. Being able to see an example is so helpful. 
  • Allow them to tackle problems independently, offering guidance when needed.

Create a Supportive Environment For Your Struggling Learner

  • Ensure they understand what is expected of them. Clear expectations are important.
  • Create consistent routines, as they can provide a sense of security.
  • Provide the necessary tools and resources and have them within reach.
  • Encourage them to pursue subjects they enjoy. When they know you have their interests at heart, this can be so helpful.
smiling mother with little daughter sitting on sofa together

Remember, building independence takes time. It is OK if it takes longer than you would like! Be patient, consistent, and supportive. Every small step forward is a significant achievement.

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