Why should you want to be knowing your child’s strengths? Because our children need us to believe in them and what they can do!

Recognizing and talking about these strengths can help kids thrive. This is especially true for kids who are struggling in school. When children discover their strengths and talents it boosts their confidence, it helps them be more productive, and it provides hope and goals for the future.

boy showing muscles


There are many different types of strengths. 

The 6 main strength categories are (though other people will break them down even further into other categories):

  • Personal – positive personality traits like kindness, curiosity, creativity, resiliency, thoughtfulness, and empathy. They usually come naturally.
  • Social – all about how your child interacts with others. Are they good listeners? Are they a good friend, etc?
  • Language – strong vocab and can communicate with clarity and strength
  • Literacy – reading and writing skills, advanced imaginations, strong memories. 
  • Math/Logic – can solve puzzles and word problems, can count, sort, and organize, can do math in their heads, and enjoy disassembling and reassembling objects.
  • Other and Talents – is creative or artistic, excels at a sport, loves to volunteer

Some strengths come naturally, while others take effort and practice to improve. 


There is another strength that I don’t think appears often enough on these lists and that is the one of intrapersonal intelligence. That truly is just a fancy way of saying you are good at being aware of their own emotional states, feelings, and motivations. Some children from an early age have this strength….and as parents this is a wonderful thing!

little girl future leader


Gallup has a great strengths test for adults, and I have a friend who uses this tool to help adults find theirs. I am so excited that there is now one for children! Having one for children will help us parents and educators. There is now a StrengthsExplorer for kids aged 10-14 and I am super excited about the potential of this test to help kids to discover and develop their talents. 


But maybe you have a younger child and you would like something easy you can go through to try and highlight what their strengths are. Here is a great checklist to go through to try and work out your child’s strengths.

I like this list as it also covers such things as cultural strengths, dexterity strengths, and high tech strengths. It takes it beyond the usual 6 categories. 

Here is one of the sections.

Logical Strengths

___  Does well in science class

___  Can estimate things easily

___  Enjoys working with numbers and/or statistics

___  Is good at solving math problems

___  Has a chemistry set or other science kit that he/she works with at home

___  Has an interest in astronomy, chemistry, physics, or biology

___  Enjoys logical or number games or puzzles like Rubik’s cube or Sudoku

___  Can easily calculate numbers in his/her head

(taken from Institute4Learning.com)

You can just go through the list of over 160 items (covering all the sections) and check off what you see in your child. It is well worth the time and effort.

strong girl

I hope that finding and knowing your child’s strengths will be such a great parenting tool for you. I know that it has helped me greatly.

Here are some other vlogs about knowing more about your children:
Living with Literal Thinkers
Raising Spirited Children
Parenting Extroverted Children
Parenting Introverted Children

Michayla Best

For over 30 years I have worked with children in a variety of capacities, whether as a teacher or tutor, a babysitter, a camp leader, or family advocate. I have always found a way to connect with children, to help them understand themselves and the world around.

I am Mummy to trinational twincesses who keep me on my toes with their questions, their commentaries, their shenanigans and acts of spontenudity.

Wife, world traveler, musician, crafting queen and self-proclaimed nerd; I love to take what I see, glean, know and help families to find their groove and be successful.

View all posts

Add comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Get Notified

I would like to know when new posts come out.

Get in touch

I would love to hear from you. Let's get a conversation started!

Learning Life – Youtube

If you like what you see and read you might like to check out my Youtube channel.

Amazon Associates Disclosure

Learning This Life is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to amazon.com.

Click the play button to watch the video.